Entry is posted before Paypal payment is received

As soon as the user clicks the submit button and is transferred to PayPal, the entry is posted and e-mailed. I don't want to entry processed until the PayPal payment is processed. How can I configure this?

I don't want to see the form data at all unless the user has actually paid. The description of the PayPal add-on says, "Configure your payment process so that posts are created by your forms only after a payment is received." (http://www.gravityforms.com/add-ons/paypal/)

That sounds like what I want - but I can't figure out how to configure it.

And yes, I have set up IPN at PayPal, and checked the box in GravityForms config.

I'm noticing what I think is the same issue - I'll see 3 or 4 entries in the Admin before I see one where the payment is actually processed successfully and I'm not sure what's causing the multiple entries.

For example - In the Form : Entries list, there's an entry at at 2:25 pm - the order details are complete, the payment shows as 'processing', then another entry at 2:30 pm - again, the order details are complete, the payment shows as 'processing', then a third entry at 2:35 - same order details, but the payment shows as 'approved'.

I can't get feedback from the customer as to what they might be doing, but this has happened a number of times.

Also, there are 4 orders in the queue that show complete order details, but the payment only shows 'processing', not approved. I'm guessing that they either failed the PayPal approval stage or abandoned the order at that point, but I didn't think the order was saved if it didn't get approved? Is that not the case?

Thanks,
:Steve