I recently posted a pre-purchase question:
For the user notification email, is it possible to include information in the email that is related to who the admin email was sent to. For example, a user chooses Denver County from a drop down and the form data will then be sent to Vendor ABC, who is associated with Denver County. The user would then receive a confirmation email that their data had been submitted to Vendor ABC and includes Vendor ABC's email, phone, and main contact person. There are five vendors, so maybe it is 5 separate user notification emails based on County selection?
Admin Chris Hajer responded that he would be able to help once the purchase was made and the form was in place. (http://www.gravityhelp.com/forums/topic/notification-email-to-user#post-64458)
I would probably modify the user notification email based on the country selection. There is a small bit of code to add to your theme's functions.php that will insert the vendor details based on the country selection. It will work essentially like the routing email, but you have more work to do to insert insert all those details into the notification.
We can help you with the details after you make your purchase. You can accomplish what you're trying to do though, for sure.
Can someone contact me on getting this in place?