Plugin for Styling

Do you have a link to your form we can look at? There is also a plethora of styling information here:

http://www.gravityhelp.com/documentation/page/Design_and_Layout

Naomi, your submit button can also be an image if you don't want to style it via CSS:

http://www.gravityhelp.com/documentation/page/File:Form-settings-advanced.png

However, since I'm not sure of how you want your submit button to look, maybe you could try adding this to your theme's stylesheet:

[css]
.gform_wrapper .gform_footer {
padding: 0 !important;
}
.gform_wrapper .gform_footer input.button, .gform_wrapper .gform_footer input[type="submit"] {
float: right;
margin-bottom: 10px;
background-color: #444;
border: 1px solid black;
color: white;
padding: 5px;
cursor: pointer;
}

@MediaInk you can use this to center your fields and right-align your button, place this into your theme's stylesheet: (note it looks like you used a ready class on the phone field, so just delete that out of the form builder and it should center align like the other fields).

[css]
.widget .gform_wrapper li, .gform_wrapper form li {
text-align: center;
}
.gform_wrapper .gform_footer {
padding: 0 !important;
}
.gform_wrapper .gform_footer input.button, .gform_wrapper .gform_footer input[type="submit"] {
float: right;
margin-bottom: 10px;
cursor: pointer;
}

MediaInk, this looks centered to me: http://grab.by/bnDb

and your phone field still has a ready class applied to it: http://grab.by/bnDc

Sorry for your frustration, but we can't assure that every theme creator out there is pumping out high quality styles and layouts for everyone's individual purpose. There is a lot of garbage out there, and people like taking short cuts. Gravity Forms is built in a way that can be styled to anyone's need. Right now we don't have any preset, highly customized, drop-in settings out of the box. But, anything is achievable and sometimes requires people with the knowledge to do so to ensure you get exactly what you want. I'd be happy to continue working this out with you and offer guidance where I can, and you always have the option to pay a designer to create and build exactly what you want.

As far as your theme goes, if you do look at how the form fields and labels look - they absolutely blend in and match with the theme. When you say what if the form needs to stand out and get extra attention - you just went into the custom realm. As stated above, I'm sure you can appreciate that there literally could be millions of ways to style and display the form - that's the power and flexibility of Gravity Forms - which the masses, as we've come to know - extremely appreciate.